So expectation, well, there are 2 types of expectation:
1: expecting some result of the work which u have done..
2: expecting someone to do something for u
Expecting a result solely depends on the hard work and presence of mind, u have applied while completing that work and on top of that, how successful u were in implementing ur plans for completing the said work..
Expecting someone to do something for u or rather expecting someone to be with u or so many cases like this, which involves someone's presence.. someone from whom u r expecting a certain thing.
Whom do u expect from? well the answer is simple, u expect from everyone.. eg. u expect ur enemy to try and harm u, u expect a beggar to ask money from u and so on..
But what matter the most is expectation from ur loved ones..
When u do something, it is always said, never expect anything in return, well i too as well say so.. and try to imply the same in my life, but somewhere down the line, i m not GOD. i need help as well, i need caring and i need love. so this leads me to expect someone to depend on... someone whom i helped, loved and cared.. this feeling cant be ignored.. when u love someone, u cant love them forever, if they dont love u back..
But usually this expectation are broken, i have personally found myself in many situation, where, i need someone and no one was there, and all i kept on thinking was, did i do the same to anyone? y isnt there anyone at the moment when i need them? haven't i helped anyone? and suddenly from no where this question makes me angry and to be precise, it makes me sad.. and its the case with everyone..
People tell me they care for me, they love me but again the same people tell me, u cant expect this, u cant expect that.. well i cant understand, y cant i expect the same things which u expect from me? i try to not be selfish and live up to expectation, but when i see no one to live up to mine, it hurts and it hurts real bad..
i want to say something to some people, but i really cant tell it on their face, i really dont want to hurt them, i would always love everyone, the place for hatred in my heart is negligible, i accept, i have hatred in me, but if i hate someone, its for a big reason.. when i promise to love everyone being unselfish, cant u please be there for me, if not at everytimes, but atleast at sometimes..
If not all this, atleast dont say it on my face, "Dude, u cant expect this from me". it drives me nuts, i makes me hate myself and at time, it makes me hate the quality in me to go out of my limits to live up to expectation..
Nothing can work alone, no single person can get everything, the success is always shared, so ofcourse, it has expectations from many people.. and when these expectation are filled up.. they make the entire contributor successful
At many times, just your presence may help someone, so if cant help someone atleast be there by their side. it gives them courage and anonymous strength to move ahead..
Spread the love, not hatred.. coz finally what u need is simple cloth, shelter and bread..
