Hiding feelings..

Guys remember, when we were kids, we used to play, HIDE AND SEEK, which is on average the most popular game in kids and it was sure fun..

As soon as we grow, we usually stop playing that game and then we start another one.. thats HIDE AND SEEK EMOTION version.. People start hiding their feelings for someone.. and at times, they hide it from themselves..

This usually happens, when u fall in love or when u know, ur feelings towards someone close might end up loosing them.. but have u realised, if the person whom u share the feeling, is he/she feels the same, and u both hide just to be on a safer side, it wont work at all.. even thou u have the same feelings, nothing works out as it should and after sometime, someday, u think that it was ur foolishness to have that kind of feeling for that person as that person doesnt has the same feelings for u without knowing about the latter one..

once i have been into such situation, well i guess everyone comes to this situation atleast once in the lifetime, u may be able to say anything and everything to everyone.. but just one thing to one person cannot be expressed.. Well i waited for long to tell the person how i feel for them.. it dint turn out the way i expected, but then atleast i then started to get over that feeling for that person and i guess it is how it should work..

If u dont speak up about ur feelings, u cant explain it other ways.. and wait till the other person realises it, trust me, most of the times, it wont happen, even if it happens, other person is not 100% sure so he/she also will not tell them about their's whatever it may be.. and it takes too long to get to a conclusion.. and if the conclusion which arrives is positive, then its good but if it's not positive.. u realise, u are too deep in this feeling and getting over is practically very tough..

If u speak up, ya ofcourse not when u have doubts in your own mind, u get a reply, no matter what is the reply, u r happy.. if its positive, ofcourse u r happy and then u have more time to share that feeling with that person and when it turns out to be negative.. u just feel bad for a day or 2 but then u r not deep into it so as to take long to get over it.. u get over it very soon and then it is also good, coz there isnt anything in ur heart to speak..

when u dont express ur feeling or what's in ur mind to the person concerned, u will always have that same thing in ur mind and in this competitive world, ur mind has to be fresh for everything.. new thoughts every min. mind should be innovative, but when ur mind is pre-occupied with something, how could u possibly have something productive in mind?

The reply NO is always heart breaking, but then it depends on u, how u take it.. and how well u handle it.. so as far as i know, u should express ur feelings.. but always keep in mind, when u have expressed ur feelings, do not let the person feel that u got hurt coz of it.. the person may not have the same feeling for u but the person might be caring for u a lot and it would hurt them as well..

NO relationship is better than SORE relationship..

HIDING IS GOOD FOR TREASURE, NOT FOR FEELINGS..