confusion

confusion: its again a state of mind when u cant decide, it is one of the factor which shows how confident u r..

well i have a friend of mine, everything u ask her, she will reply, i dont know.. havent thought about it yet.. everything u tell her and she is confused..

well confusion is something, if u think about, will confuse u a lot..

When i think about confusion, what i think is, it may be either of 2 cases, 1st: when u have to choose between 2 things which are of equal importance/which gives equal happiness.. or 2nd: when u have to choose between 2 worst things or scenario..

i have read once somewhere: when u r confused between 2 things, just toss the coin, not coz it will give u a result but as soon as u toss it, hear the very first thing ur heart wants from coin.. and thats what u really want and ur confusion gets over.. i havent been into many confusing situations in recent times, but whenever i have been, i have been thru extreme situations and they were vital..

When u r confused and when u know it, ur mind tends to be stressed, thus working slower and not letting u come to a decision.. When u r really really confused and nothing is coming in ur mind, toss the coin.. well if ur heart says something, then good but if it doesnt dont go with the result, coin has given.. ask someone about it.. someone who doesnt know about that thing related to u at all.. it gives u a neutral decision..

Well there is one more type of confusion, i guess, its toughest to handle and the biggest confusing one.. BRAIN v/s HEART. it is usually found when someone is in love.. gals (on an average, considering girls to be more emotional than guys) usually get biased towards heart and guys are biased towards brain.. Girls usually endup usually thinking, i know u r wrong but then i dont want to loose u so i will just cover it up with my love.. and guys endup thinking, i love u, but that doesnt mean, u r not wrong..

when u r in confused in love, dont think about it at all.... ask someone else.. take more than 1 decision u want.. but dont think urself.. coz somewhere or the other, love makes u biased and the decision u take may end up being a wrong 1. even for that matter, guys who tend to use their brain and try to be hard not to think with their heart, but after sometime, they start doing it.. and get biased...

i have written a poem, which is basically about a girl who is confused, after she recieves a proposal, she isnt sure of saying yes or no, she loves him, but she is afraid to loose him someday..

THE SMILING TEARS

I could see tears rolling down the eyes

but with a smile on her face…

I really don’t know what to rely on…

This confusion makes me feel disgrace….

Every drop of the tears shows the pain inside her soul

Every inch of the smile resembles happiness of my doll…

She is confused so as to laugh or to cry,

Even I am crying but my eyes are dry..

There is a simple answer to the question

She do loves me but with regression…

Answer is so simple as it could be ,

Even if she wants she cant be with me..

I wish someday she would conclude her decision,

Till that time, as everyone says,I will have to have the patience…

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Well so confusion, aint bad, aint good, it depends on what's at the stake, sometime, the person regarding whom u r confused, feels great coz u r confused coz of them, like the guy here in the poem is happy, whatever may be the answer, he knows that the girl loves him, what more does he needs?

its all about ur perception on things.. confusion doesnt last long, if u think it with an unbiased mind or if u take someone's help...