anger and irritation

I haven't written 2 topics together anytime in one post, but i guess its necessary to write these two in one.. coz they are directly related to each other...

If a person is angry, tell him/her anything, he/she will get irritated for sure.. and vice-versa...

Wow, this is one of the topics, i would really like to talk about.. I wont ask u to question urself, whats anger, coz for everyone i guess its the same and if u dont think likewise u r free to think, what's anger for u...

My friends say, i get angry real fast, i dont know, is there any time limit before which u cant get angry.. i mean thats stupidity, the threshold when u get angry depends on how much r u hurt.. and ya maybe i get hurt fast.. maybe..

anger: since birth, i have heard that its not a good thing, i mean y? its just an emotion, as others are so whats bad in it? Anger at all times, shows how much u love and care.. think of the situations in past, y were u angry? Mostly i guess in 2 cases, once when someone is wrong and its harming u or when someone close to urself is harmed or hurt. Irritation is surely bad, no doubts about it..

Have u realised anytime, when ur anger is due to first case, it just wents off very fast, i mean, i have noticed it... it goes away very soon.. but when u r angry coz ur close one is harmed, u generally dont loose it so fast. Imagine 2 situation... 1. Someone is abusing u.. 2. someone is abusing ur younger sibling who cant help but to listen... which case would make u more angry, for me it will be the second case.

Talking about irritation, well continuing with the above example. That moment, even if ur sibling says anything, u would probably get irritated and more angry, even thou u care for him/her, but u get irritated... leave about the person abusing, if he/she says something more... u would be so irritated, u would loose the last bit of ur wit..

Irritation: one thing which we come across many a times, there are more things which irritate u than to anger u.. irritation takes place when ur mind doesnt allows u to understand the things happening around u and stop giving u actions to take in the situation... everything u hear has a negative meaning.. nothing is positive and believe me, after u have crossed that phase of irritation, u would realise, the things told to u while u were irritated where just to calm u down and were mostly correct.. this again happens coz loss of wit for a while...

ya sorry, dint tell u about the wit... how many times, have u regretted a fight or a cold war.. i have regretted it almost everytime, coz while one gets angry, they lose their wit and same is the case with irritation.. to be more precise, only coz u loose ur wit, ur thinking power, anytime u get angry, u start getting irritated... and vice-versa..

I had told u that anger isnt bad thing, i will tell u how... its just an emotion and it comes from inside... if u can control it, there are many things u will achieve which u havent even thought of..

i have told u, u loose ur wit when u r angry, believe me, if u can manage to understand things around u and not loose ur mind.. u will be benefited from the anger..

not possible? think again...

i m angry on someone, i just go and bash him, what's my benefit? what did i get? he lost something, he probably got a wound and highly possible, me too, but in any case, i didnt gain anything..

now if i keep my cool, i understand the situation around me, the anger in me, will tell me to show him that i m superior.. and only coz its my mind working rather than my hands... i would think of smarter things to do.. probably if we are in a competition, his anger towards me will make him aggressive and aggressive person plays well but not for long.. and then that's the time, i can get success over him.. thus my anger helped me to even defeat him/her and also i m benefit from it..

anyone's lose is not ur success.. everytime we think, if the opponent lost, we won, thats wrong, coz u dint win coz of extra hard work, u won coz the person in front wasnt giving enough hard work towards it.. highly possible, he/she will fire back with stronger strategy and harder work.. and then u would loose...

so make it a point, dont reply on someone's weakness, make urself strong... someone's weakness can make u win again him/her but ur strongness would help u against everyone..

Even thou i said, anger isnt bad, i m as well not saying, anger is good.. it has lot bad effects than good effects...

whatever the situation is.. keep ur calm, everytime u r angry, say in ur mind, "u r losing ur brain, u will get irritated, dont let this happen.. calm down" at one point after little efforts u will realise, anger would be now at fewer moments and irritation still fewer...

Have a happy life, stay calm, love everyone... tc