confidence

Confidence: one more important thing to succeed in life.. no one can do anything without it..

Confidence: Believing urself..

I still remember, when i was small, i.e will i was in school. i was very under-confident.. i was never a bad student.. not a very good student either.. but when i see look behind, i see, i could have done better..

Now, i m a confident guy, no matter what happens, when i do something, i have that confidence in me, that i can do it.. many people say, i m over confident and optimistic about things happening the right way.. what i say is, if i dont have that confidence, i wont be able to give it my full efforts.. and thus, the chances of success will diminish.. and that wont be good anyways..

The best part of having confidence is the way u talk changes, the under confident guy can never convince someone for anything.. he can never give his full efforts, back in his mind, the chances of failure increases every minute... and in a confident guy, its all opposite, he can convince anyone coz he is sure of things and that makes him confident.. the words which he uses is powerful.. he gives all his effort, coz the confidence in him tells him, he will win.. and thus it creates a positive energy in him and it gives him better ideas to deal with things.. he is open to experiments.. which under confident guy would never..

People usually say, being confident is nice but u have to be practical.. i m not sure, what do they mean by it.. so if everyone has failed, practically speaking, i should as well fail right? but it isnt the case, the person who is confident enough, practical things doesnt matters.. they create their own path...

A couple of lines from my scribblings:

I wish life had been so easy, as "so called practical" people say.. Then there wouldn't have been any prey.. i don't deny your theory about life, but i have my own.. u say, there is a road to destination, but i say, i want to make it one for my own..

Being confident works most of the time, it gives u courage to fight.. now saying all this, everyone should be confident.. but it isnt easy to build confidence..

U really need to believe that u r right, u will face many problems.. usually questions comes in the way for confidence.. usually u think, no, its tuff i may not be able to do it.. u cant get that confidence..

I just received a sms today, it was "its so hard when you HAVE TO and so easy when u WANT TO" i completely agree with it.. its all about mindset.. u have the correct mindset, everything is possible.. and to have this mindset, u should believe urself and have confidence in urself..

Remember, Confident person may fail at times, but he is sure, he did all he could to achieve his goal and so he knows, next time, what extra effort he has to put in for the same... but an Under confident guy would fail in most of the cases, and in the cases which he will succeed, he wont be sure of things... and where he fails, he gives up..

ONCE U GIVE UP ON SOMETHING, U HAVE LOST IT COMPLETELY...

well saying about all this, remember there is a very thin line between confidence and over confidence.. make sure, when u r confident and specially when u taste success in succession.. don't let that confidence turn into over confidence.. Only confidence doesnt help, u have to put in the efforts to achieve goals.. confidence just gives u a proper mindset and positive energy to work on ur goals..