so again as usual, a question.. whats happiness?
and second question:
Whats happiness to u.. well i have heard the same question in a movie named: Vanilla sky, and that was the time, when i seriously thought about it..
SO happiness: well its a one thing everyone does everything for.. i mean, u work to earn, u earn so that u get everything u want, and that would make u happy, in short u work for happiness and more things like this..
Happiness means different things to different people.. for me, happiness is when people whom i love are happy.. their smile makes me happy, no matter how sad i am, but if see someone smiling, i m happy and for some happiness is when they are independent and free.. and many different things
happiness is resembled by smile on the face but if u ask me, the truest happiness brings tears in the eyes.. these tears are different... u dont feel bad looking at them, but u feel happy.. i have seen that many a times.. specially with the people who never cry in front of others..
well we want to be happy, but have u ever thought, do u deserve happiness? anyone who is selfish, can be happy but not for long.. someday he will realise that he isnt happy anymore.. only coz there would be no one to share his happiness...
again the same point as it was in sadness, just to recollect.. when u r sad, u feel u r alone, but the time, u realise there is someone with u in that sadness, the sadness starts decreasing and in sometime, it just vanishes.. same way u cant be happy alone, coz when u r happy, u need it to share with others... remember, if u r happy alone, then there is always someone who is unhappy coz of the same reason as of ur happiness.. and happiness on a stake of making someone unhappy isnt worth it and it fades away very soon..
so share the happiness, and believe me, the best feeling is to making someone smile.. if u can make a sad person smile, u would feel a undefinable happiness.. a true happiness.. which will bring smile on 2 faces rather than 1...
There are times, when u r sad, but u know, coz of ur sadness, someone else will also be sad, in that times, try and fake a smile, dont let the smile on other person's face fade.. and if u r able to make someone happy even being urself sad, then thats the time, u deserve happiness... and those who deserve anything.. they get it, sooner or later.. at times, u will need patience but trust me its worth waiting..
a poem from me...
A HOPE OF JOY
Life is like a chamber
Full of joy with every member.
Filled with love and sorrow,
There’s always coming is a “tomorrow”
Love, Passion and Devotion,
Keeps your life in motion
Life shouldn’t be miserable,
Try to keep it calm and stable,
Removing all fear from my mind
I am a person, trying to be kind.
Peace is what we need,
But All about fight is what we nowadays read,
Basics of life, we always forget,
In return, hardship is all what we get.
if we remember the basics of life to keep each other happy, we as well will be happy... u cant attain happiness with fight.. so peace is a basic MANTRA of happiness..
Keep Smiling...
so true gr8 poem
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god bless
Thanks for that lovely comment, felt really nice.. tc...
ReplyDeleteDear Abhi, I am no one to criticize you or anyone for that matter but I can tell you from experience. Youth is very precious but unfortunately we don't appreciate this when we are young because of many circumstances and inexperience being one of them. Some of us are fortunate to be guided by loved ones and some of us have to find our own path and learn by trial. We tend to forget that in years to come we will simply brush aside what appears to be grave issues and all consuming of life today. Nor I see any point beating the old theoretic about we became what we want to be. But there is a much happier and easy way to circumvent the troubled waters of sadness and feeling of being left out. That is to do anything and everything with all your 100% and open heart, loving what you do and do it with love, that is what you become in end. That is what will reflect upon your persona and eventually make you what your heart always wanted you to be. This time of today will not be here tomorrow. Tomorrow there will be wisdom but youth would have long gone. So make the best of it while it lasts and live it lustily.
ReplyDeleteSometime It is OK to feel sad just about as you feel happy, so in a way they are just different sides of same coin, but nothing triumphs in end like a life loved and lived to hilt. It is also OK to cry but you really don't have much options in end but to wipe away the tears and not ask god, why me, instead say 'try me'. If nothing so terrible has happened that it kills you only makes you stronger from within. I don't have to remind you that only strong ones can take the journey which seems hard to others, with a smile.
Cheers
@bbs hey bro,thanks for ur message.. i do understand every of this and i am trying to say the same things.. well just little my way.. i have not been thru the life as much as u have.. but from my own experiences, i have seen that sad comes more than happiness.. and thats the reason i have started with this blog, u know, the day when i had started with this blog, i was sad, really really sad, depressed to the core, but when i wrote about sadness and happiness, i realised that i know about it but cant execute the way to happiness when i was sad, so now i have total different mentality.. and thats just coz i have understood my own words.. my innerself has come out this way.. anyways it was nice hearing from u.. and ur msg to an extent inspired me more.. the better life i would live...
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